Why hypnosis fail.... for most people.

Today the internet is filled with many hypnosis programs. Just try typing hypnosis into a google search engine and see how many of them pop up. A lot of people go public with their experience and talk about how its works so well for them. On the other hand a lot other people claim that hypnosis is just hoax, and that it nothing more then a waste of money. A lot of people spend thousands of dollars on hypnosis mp3s, subliminal, affirmations, and other personal development tools yet most of them fail.. or do they?

You see all the things I have listed above were all created and produced on a basic assumption. That the user is already taking action or is going to take action after using the material. The irony is that mostly lazy and apathetic couch potatoes are the ones that purchase these products. For example, a lonely male in his 20's goes home after work and sits in front his computer all day and sees an add for a new hypnosis CD called "Attract hot women with ease" or something generic like that. This person who never leaves his house gets all excited and spends about 27 dollars on this CD. He finally gets the CD and he starts playing the cd as instructed every single day. However after a few months or so (assuming he has some level of discipline) he will start to get frustrated because he will get zero results. He will then spend his Friday night blogging about what a bad product this is when he should be going out and meet some people.

Then we have another person across town who is working hard on his business trying to make it more successful. This person is putting in 14 hours a day trying to make it prosper but it just isn't going the way he wants it to. However one night this person discovers the same website as the guy in the previous example, and buys the "Extreme wealth" CD (or something like that). In a single month he starts to notice that his motivation went up and that for some reason his business is starting to grow at a rapid pace. After a few months (around the time the previous guy quit) this business owner finds that he is making more money even though he worked less than before. This guy becomes the next success story posted in the testimonial section of that hypnosis website.

The reason hypnosis worked for the second guy because he was congruent with the CD. He was working hard to develop wealth so the hypnosis simply rewrote his beliefs and inner fears that blocked him from seeing the opportunities that were present every day. Now for the first guy the CD he listened to was trying to rewrite his belief to let him see the plenty of opportunities that he had with women and that he was an attractive person. Here is where things get messy. His subconscious mind is being told repeatedly that he is a stud and that he has many success with women. However since the guy spends most of his time at home not even trying to attract women, his subconscious mind can't find find any evidence that he is a successful with women. That is like having a pizza delievered to your doorstep but you refuse to open the door and now your calling to complain that your pizza isn't here after hours of waiting.

What I am getting at is that hypnosis does work but only for people who were already trying to achieve their goals. The next time your considering trying out some hypnosis programs you need to ask yourself if your praying for a miracle or if you just wanted a tool to help you a achieve your goals faster. That question will make the world of difference.

Cheers